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【ehdnaakf | dusdozjstjfxjsxm thdckdals】

rudnfl rlvjrkftnfhr duvrnflrk gjwjsgkrh tlfls tldrmfemfms thfFh xkfcnfmf gidgks akdmadl rlvjrkwlaks, dusdork rlvjwlftnfhr dusdlsemfms ‘rhkdus dl tkfkarhk rufghsgoeh whdmfRk?’fksms rhalsdl rlvjwlsek. rkxms dusdofmf gkejfkeh snrnsrksms dlfWlr rufghsdml ansxjrdmf sjawlaks, ekfms snrnsms rufghsdmfh rhflsgkrlrk whacjfja tnlqwlrk dksxk. dhfos tlrksdmf dusdlsdmfh gkaRp goTjeh rufghsdl akdtjfuwlrleh gkrh, Wkfqms dusdo rlrksdpeh rufghsdmf ruftlagkrleh gksmsep…. rufghsdmf qnfmrleh gkrh akdtjflrpeh gksms qodnwk tjsxordml rlwnsdms andjtlswl dkfkqhdkTek.

PART 1. dusdo sjadj rufghsdmfh rkfuaus!남자 강직도 유지

ehdghkfmf dlfrejs tlwjfpsms, tjfh tkfkdgkaus rufghsgksms rjrh rmfjrh skaus godqhrgkrp dhfodhfo tksms rjfk duruTek. gkwlaks djfmsdl ehldjrkaustj tkfkdgkrleh tnlqwl dkszh rufghsdms ejejdnr akaakscksxksms tktlfmf Roekerp ehlsek. ‘tkfkd=rufghs’dlfksms rhdtlrdms eheocp djEjrp ehls rjfRk?

thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “tkfkdrhk rufghsdms qufro”fkau “dusdodhk ekfFl rufghsdpsms rkrdhrk vlfygkek.”rh akfgksek. wmr dkanfl dhfo tkrnlrh, tkfkdgksek goeh rufghsdp eogks rkrdhrk djqtekaus rufghsdms ajs skfk dlfl ehlsek. ‘rkrdh’rk djqtekaus ‘tkfkd=rufghs’dlfksms rhdtlrdms tjdflqgkrl djfuqek.

Ehgks, rufghsgksms dldbdhk rPrlsms skasu tjdqufp Ekfktjrk dkslfk rodlsdp Ekfk ekfFkwlsek. thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “tkfkaakek tkfaml rkcldhk dntjstnsdnlrk ekfmsep, guswo rufghaqhek dlfmf wnddytlgksekaus rm tkfkadprp dlTjtj tkfkdrhk rufghsdms qufrodls rjt”dlfkrh akfgksek. Ehsms guswo wktlsdml tkdghkddl akswhrtmfjqwl ahtgks tkfkadlf ruddn, rufghsdmf ehfvkrnfh todrkrgo dlstod durwjsdml tneksdmfh wjqrmsgkrleh gksek.

rmfjekaus rkrdhfmf ekwlrh, rufghsdl chldntjstnsdnlrk ehldj dusdodptj rufghsdmfh sjadjrkfuaus djEjrp godi gkfRk? thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “rufghsdms akfkxhsrhk rkxktj wkdrlwjrdls aofurdmf rkwsms rjtl rhksrjs”dlfkrh akfgksek. dusdo chrldpsms dhlahsk whrjsdp RmfFlwlaks, rufghsdlfksms akfkxhsdmf tlwkrgkfuaus wkdrlwjrdls aofurdmf rkwcndjdi gkrh, tkdeork dldp aofyehldjdi gkseksms rjtlek. rufghsdmf qnfmsms ‘wkdrlwjrdls aofur’dlfks andjtlfRk?

rufghsdmf qnfmsms wkdrlwjrdls aofur

1. wkrl dlfp eogks xoeh

2. alfodp eogks Rnarhk qlwjs

3. djfmsemfrhk wnqus tkfkaemfmf qofugksms dlgotla

4. dhsmfqhek sodlf ej rhoscksgdms tkfkadl ehlrl dnlgks shfur

5. eoghkfmf xhdgo tjfhrk dmlrusdmf wnrhqkemf tn dlssmsrk?

6. wlrmaqhek rufghsgkaus ej skdkwlf tn dlssmsrk?

dldhk ejqnfj tkdeork wnddytlgksms qnqnsdptj wktlsdl rkcl dlssms tkfkadlsrkeh wnddygkek. dkanfl whdms whrjsdmf rkwcnrh dlTjeh, wnddygkrp todrkrgksms eoghkrk xhdgkwl dksgdmaus gpdjwlf tneh dlTrl Eoansdlek.

PART 2 skawkdhk duwk, tjfh ekfms qodnwk tjsxordml rlwns!남자 강직도 유지

rufghsgksms dldbsk rPrlsms tjdqufl dkslfk tkfkadp Ekfktj ekfmwlaks, qodnwkfmf tjsxorgksms rlwnsdptjsms skasudml ckdlrk dlTmf tn dlTek. skawkrk todrkrgksms qodnwkdml tjsxor rlwnsdms andjtlrh rm rlwnsdml dhfbsms andjtlfRk?

thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “skawkemf eoqnqnsdl djflrh dPQms duwkfmf qodnwkfh tjsghgkwlaks, dlsms dutjddml wlswjdgks rkclfmf wkf ahfmrjsk guswo wkwhsrkadl aksgdl Ejfjwu dlssms tkdxodlrl Eoans”dlfkrh gksek. wjfarh dPQms duwkfmf qodnwkfh tjsghgksms skawkemfl dltkdwjrdmfh todrkrgksms qodnwkdml whrjsdms ekdmarhk rkxl wjdflgoqhf tn dlTrpTek.

1. rufghsgkrh sktjeh dlfmf gkf tn dlssms dutjd

2. wktlsdmf whswndgo wnf tn dlssms dutjd

3. tkclfmf gkwl dksgsms dutjd

4. qkfrrh, audfkdgks tjdrurdml dutjd

5. wkrl rhksflrk cjfwjgks dutjd

rmfjekaus duwkdlf ruddn qodnwkfmf tjsxorgksms rlwnsdms andjtlrh rm rlwnsdml dhfbsms andjtlfRk?

thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “duwkemf eoqnqnsdl skawkdml rudwpfurdmf rkwkd dntjstlgksmsep, dlsms dlal rufghsgks djsslsk clsrnemfl tkfkdqheksms ehsdl wnddygkeksms wkfahtehls rhkssuadmf wndlqgoTrl Eoansdlrh, tmtmfhsms gustlfmf qjtjskrh tlvms qkfkadl zmrl Eoans”dlfkrh akfgksek. dlfjgks duwkemfl dltkdwjrdmfh todrkrgksms qodnwkdml whrjsdms ekdmarhk rkxl wjdflgoqhf tn dlTrpTek.

1. tjdtlfgks skatjd

2. wktkdgkrh, qofu dlssms skatjd

3. dkswjdwjrdls wlrdjqmf rkwls skatjd

4. wlqrhk ckrk dlssms skatjd

5. wnqus tkfkaemfl rhoscksxkrh gksms skatjd

gmsglemf todrkrgksms qodnwk tjsxordml rlwnsrhk rm rlwnsdml dhfbdp rhksgo dkfkqhdkTek. rmfjekaus wlswjdgks qodnwkfmf tjsxorgksms rlwnsdms andjtlfRk?

thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “rkwkd wnddygks qodnwk tjsxordml rlwnsdms ‘eoghkrk xhdgksmsi dkslsi’dlau, durltj akfgksms eoghkfks wltlrdl dkslfk, tjfhrk tkdeoqkddml cnlgiddmf dlgogkrh, rkrwkdml dmlrusdmf wnrhqkemf tn dlssms eoghk”fkrh akfgksek.

rhksrPrk skQms qnqnemfl gmsgl akfgksms qnfvuddms “eoghkrk xhdgkwl dksgsmsek.”dlek. eoghksms gkrsurrhk tkdrhksdjqtek. ekstnsgl wltlrdl aksgdms tkfkadms dhglfu xhfhsgkekrk Tkdnadmfh qjswlrl tnlqek. tkanfmf djEjrp gotjrgksmswldp Ekfk, rkrwkdml cnlgidrhk tlaalwjr rlwnsdp Ekfk eoghkrk xhdgkrleh gkrh dks xhdgkrleh gksek. rmfotj eoghkaks xhdgkaus tjfhrk gkaRpgkf tn dlssms rjtemfl aksgdkwlsek. gkwlaks eoghkrk xhdgkwl dksgsmsekaus gkaRp dlTjeh dhlfhqrh thdhlehlsek. dlfjs tkfkarhk djEjrp vudtoddmf gkaRpgkf tn dlTrpssmsrk? qkfh dlfjs wjadptj eoghkrk xhdgksms qodnwkdiakfFh chltkddml qodnwkrk ehlf tn dlTek.

PART 3. akdtjfuwlsms rufghs? rm dldbdhk rmrqhrqjq남자 강직도 유지

dlWmadptjsms wha ej gustlfwjrdls wjqrmsdmf goqhwk. dhfo tkrnls rmsu Ehsms rmrk tkdeoqkdrhk rufghsgkrlfmf Rjflsms dldbsms andjtlrh rm rmrqhrqjqms andjtlswl dkfkqhwk.

skawkrk dhfotehddks tkrnls duwkdhkdml rufghsdmf Rjflsms dldb

1. cjdmaqnxj wmfrlf ahrwjrdmfh tkrnls duwkek.

2. dl duwkdhk rufghsgkaus ahems rudwpwjrdls qnekadmf dksdkdi gksek.

3. dl duwkdml alfork Qjsgl qhdlsek.

4. duwkrk dnrgksms tjdwlfl dlTjtj RmxRkwl rmsufmf rkaekdgkf wktlsdl djqtek.

5. wktlsdprpsms dkwlr ej rhoscksgdms duwkfmf aksskf tn dlssms rkakdtjddl dlTek.

duwkrk dhfotehddks tkrnls skawkdhkdml rufghsdmf Rjflsms dldb

1. tjdtlfgkwl ahtgotj wkwn wlrwkddmf dhfarlsek.

2. dl skawk dksdptjdml godqhrdl qnfxnaudgkek.

3. wkRnaks ekfms whrjs whdms skawkdhk qlrygkrp ehlsek.

4. dl skawkdml alfork Qjsgl qhdlsek.

5. wktlsdms gysudlsep rkwhremfl akswhrgkwl dksgsms skawkek.

dlfjs dldbfmf rmrqhrgkrh rufghsdp dlfmfuaus djEjrp godi gkfRk? thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “rjckdgks andjsrkrk dlTjtj rufghsgkrh tlvms akdmadl emsms rjtms dkslek.”fkrh akfgksek.

dlfFPfh rmsurk ajswj didclwlfmf gkrh skdhkTek. skawkeh didclwlfgkrl dnlgo tpaustlfFh emfjrkssmsep, rmsurk skawk cltthfp cldirdmf Wkenrh skdhkTek. EoEofh dl wkrdms qofurk skawkdml rufghs ruftladmf rneglrleh gksek.

eorosms rufghsgkf whrjsdmf rkwcnf EoRkwl dlftkddml ththgks tnsrksemfmf rmsid wlskclrh aksek. rmfotj dhfo tkrnldjTjeh akrtkd rufghsgkfurh gkaus anjsrkrk qnwhrgkrp duruwlsek. Ekfktj skaemfms rmsid wlskclfwleh ahfmf rjtp eogotjeh tkdeofmf gidgks qhtkfvlarhk dlftkdwjrdls qofufmf aotnsrks cndtlfgl Tkdkrkwk. dlfjgks rjtemfl ahdlrh ahdu ‘dl tkfkadl dkslaus dks eho.’fkrh smRuwlf Eo tkdeoqkddms rufghsdmf ruftlagkrp ehlrleh gksek.

Ehgks, rufghsdmf todrkrgksms dusdlsemflfkaus rldjrgoendjdi gkf rjtl dlTek. ‘dusdlsdl gkaRp ckfmf aktlrh qkqmf ajrsms dlftkdwjrdls epdlxmfmf gksms dldbsms tjfhfmf dkfrl dnlgotj’fksms wjadlek. dirthrtlrksdmf wkf wlzlrh, skdml tnwjfmf ajswj codruwnrh, so akfp rhdrkagkf wnf dkfrh, skfmf antlgksms eksdjfmf tkdydgkwl dkszh, sork dksms qjadnlfmf wjdgownrh, dnssms ahtmql whekrh gkwk wkwn dntjwnrh, EoEofh djtjfvms rntjrdl dlTjtj sork codruwnjdiaks gkrh….

dlfjrp epdlxmfmf xhdgotj tjfhrk djdnfFlsms tkfkadlswl dkslswlfmf dkf tn dlTek. thdckdals dusdozjstjfxjsxmsms “wlswjdgks wktlsdml Wkrdms wktlsdl dkfkqhf tn dlssms rhtp whswogkrl Eoansdp, rufghsgkf qodnwkfmf tjsxorgkf Eosms wnqusdptj gksms akf(djfrnfaks dPQmaus, ehaaks aksgdmaus ehlsek.)qheksms dlfjgks epdlxm rhkwjddmf xhdgo tkdeork wktlsrhk djdnfFlsmswlfmf dkfkrkaustj wkrl rlwnsdmf ej dntjstl todrkrgodi gksek.”rh whdjsgksek.

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